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Early Wednesday evening Jenni JWoww Farleyposted a lengthy open letterto herestranged husband Roger Mathewson her website.
This is the plot that allegedly led to that exbeing arrestedfor attempting to extort her.
If this was not enough, you have spit at me.
You have pushed me.
You have shoved me.
You have aggressively thrown me to the ground.
I WANTED TO HANDLE THIS OUT OF THE SPOTLIGHT BECAUSE OUR SILENCE IS THEIR GREATER GOOD.
EVEN WHEN YOU TRIED TO DISGRACE MY NAME, MAKE FALSE ACCUSATIONS AND EVEN POINT BLANK LIE…
I STILL REMAINED SILENT AS CHALLENGING AS IT WAS … WHY?
BECAUSE, GREATER GOOD.
I CAN NO LONGER SIT IDLY BY WHILE YOU MISTREAT AND MALIGN ME IN SUCH AN EGREGIOUS MANNER.
THE ALTERED PERCEPTIONS YOU HAVE CREATED FOR YOURSELF ON SOCIAL MEDIA IS TRULY STAGGERING.
YOUR POSTINGS ARE CONSUMED WITH INACCURACIES, FALSE STATEMENTS, SELF-SERVING COMMENTS, OUTRIGHT MISREPRESENTATIONS AND BLATANT LIES.
WHAT IS YOUR ACTUAL TRUTH?
WHAT IS YOUR REALITY?
HOW DARE I BE WORRIED ABOUT OUR SONS MEDICAL CONDITION?
HOW DARE ANYONE QUESTION YOU ABOUT WHAT GREYSON EATS DURING YOUR PARENTING TIME?
ITS ONLY OUR SONS SAFETY AT ISSUE.
I AM CURIOUS WHY YOU DIDNT POST LAST WEEKS VIDEO OF GREYSON WITH HIS THERAPIST ON SOCIAL MEDIA?
OH, OF COURSE!!
THAT WOULD BE BECAUSE YOU REFUSED TO kick off the DOOR (AND YOU WERE HOME!)
UNFORTUNATELY, THIS IS ONLY A SMALL SAMPLING IN THE LAST COUPLE OF WEEKS OF ROGER REALITY ON IG.
you oughta LOOK OUT FOR THE BEST INTERESTS OF OUR CHILDREN, ROGER.
THE CHILDREN ARE THE ONLY PRIORITY.
YOUR ACTIONS HAVE AND CONTINUE TO PLACE THE CHILDREN IN HARMS WAY.
STOP, PAUSE AND HAVE A TRUE REALITY CHECK.
YOU HURT THE CHILDREN AND YOU HURT ME.
WHEN WILL IT END?
YOU DIDNT STOP THERE THOUGH.
YOU PERSISTED TO give a shot to TAKE ME DOWN.
YOU KNEW THAT ANOTHER EX FROM MY COLLEGE YEARS BRUTALLY BEAT ME SO BADLY THAT I WAS HOSPITALIZED.
HE WAS INCARCERATED FOR THE VIOLENT ACTS AGAINST ME.
HE WAS GUILTY OF 3 COUNTS OF CRIMINAL CONTEMPT IN THE SECOND DEGREE.
HE VIOLATED AN ORDER OF PROTECTION MULTIPLE TIMES.
HE EVEN CONTACTED ME FROM JAIL AFTER HE WAS ARRESTED IN VIOLATION OF THE ORDER.
I CONFIDED IN YOU ABOUT MY PAINFUL PAST AS A SURVIVOR OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.
HOW SHAMEFUL THAT YOU USED IT TO BEAT ME DOWN FARTHER.
YOU ARE AN ABUSER TO THE CORE, ROGER MATHEWS.
IF THIS WAS NOT ENOUGH, YOU HAVE SPIT AT ME.
YOU HAVE PUSHED ME.
YOU HAVE SHOVED ME.
YOU HAVE AGGRESSIVELY THROWN ME TO THE GROUND.
YOU HAVE PREVENTED ME FROM CLOSING DOORS TO ESCAPE HAVING YOU COMING AT ME.
YOU HAVE BELITTLED AND DISPARAGED ME.
YOU HAVE THREATENED ME.
YOU HAVE CONTACTED MY BOSSES TO ATTEMPT TO SMEAR MY NAME AND HURT MY PUBLIC IMAGE.
YOU CLAIM TO HAVE SUFFERED?
YOUR ACTIONS ARE REPREHENSIBLE.
NO REAL MAN WOULD TORTURE HIS FAMILY AS YOU HAVE.
YOU ARE CRUEL AND VICIOUS.
YOU ARE A MAN WHO ACTUALLY BLAMES THE VICTIM.
SADLY, I HAVE LEARNED THAT THIS IS ALL JUST ORDINARY BEHAVIOR FOR YOU.
A VIOLENT PERSON IS WHO YOU REALLY ARE THROUGH AND THROUGH.
YOUR THREATS AND ABUSE ARE NOT LIMITED TO THOSE INCIDENTS THOUGH.
THERE IS SO MUCH MORE.
I ALREADY KNOW WHAT IS ON THIS USB HOWEVER.
YOUR INTIMIDATION TACTICS WITH FOOTAGE THAT YOU INTEND TO SHOW OUT OF CONTEXT ARE MEANINGLESS.
THE VIDEOS ARE FROM 2 YEARS AGO.
I CANT RECALL WHY YOU ASSAULTED ME ON THAT OCCASION JUST ANOTHER DAY IN THE FARLEY-MATHEWS HOME.
I DO HAVE THE FOOTAGE OF THAT DOMESTIC VIOLENCE INCIDENT THOUGH.
YOUR SELFIE IS 20 MINUTES OF ME CRYING AND RANTING IN THE BACKGROUND …
LOOKING PALE AND FRAZZLED.
I HAD GREYSON 6 MONTHS PRIOR.
YOU TALK ABOUT OTHER WOMEN IN MY PREMARITAL HOUSE THAT SHELTERS YOU AND WHERE OUR CHILDREN LIVE?
YOU BRAG ABOUT AN AFFAIR, HAVING NO RESPECT FOR ME AS THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILDREN?
I HAD BEEN CLEANING GLASS YOU SHATTERED IN THE KITCHEN.
YOU DONT SEE THAT IN THE VIDEO YOU CREATE.
YOU DONT SEE GREY UPSET IN THE VIDEO.
YOU ARE OF COURSE AS COOL AS A CUCUMBER, CHILLING OUT WITHOUT MAKING A MOVE.
JUST PROVOKING AND RIDICULING ME, TRYING TO GET A RISE OUT OF ME.
SO YOU HAVE EMBARKED ON A CRUSADE TO ABUSE ME AND PLACE ME AND THE KIDS IN HARMS WAY.
STILL A PRAISEWORTHY FATHER AND HUSBAND?
FOR MYSELF, ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS AND I CAN HONOR THAT.
THE DAY AFTER I FILED, I BOUGHT DISNEY ON ICE TICKETS FOR ALL OF US.
THESE TICKETS WERE FOR JANUARY.
I CLEARLY THOUGHT OF US CO-PARENTING WELL INTO THE FUTURE AS RESPONSIBLE PARENTS SHOULD.
I INVITED YOU AND PAID FOR YOUR PLANE TICKET TO GREYSONS DOCTOR APPOINTMENT IN ORLANDO, FLORIDA.
IT WAS ALL ABOUT SAFEGUARDING YOUR EGO INSTEAD OF OUR SONS MEDICAL NEEDS.
AN OBSTACLE THAT HAS BEEN COMPLETELY FRUSTRATING.
JUST BECAUSE TWO PEOPLE CANT MOVE FORWARD IN THEIR MARITAL RELATIONSHIP, DOES NOT MEAN THEY CANT CO-PARENT.
YOUR INSISTENCE TO FIGHT MERELY TO FIGHT HIGHLIGHTS YOUR ABUSIVE TENDENCIES.
YOUR SPITEFUL ATTITUDE CONTINUES TO BE HARMFUL TO THIS FAMILY.
OUR CHILDREN ARE THE ONES WHO SUFFER AS A RESULT.
THE $20-$40 SAVINGS TO YOU WAS MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE OVERNIGHT TIME WITH MEILANI.
DO YOU POST THESE FACTS ON SOCIAL MEDIA?
YOU POST INSTEAD THAT I AM WITHHOLDING YOUR CHILDREN.
I RECALL YOU BEING THE MAN WHO TOUTED HIMSELF ON AND OFF CAMERA SO MANY TIMES…
I AM NOT WITH YOU FOR YOUR MONEY.
I WILL NEVER WANT CHILD SUPPORT, ALIMONY…
I AM A HARD WORKING MAN AND CAN HOLD MY OWN, ETC.
SO WHERE IS THIS PERSON NOW?
I GUESS I WONT EVER KNOW WHAT ITS LIKE KEEPING IT REAL… AND THE REAL REALITY.
I AM THE FOOL IN THE END FOR BELIEVING IN THE HYPE OF YOU.
NEVERTHELESS, I WILL CONTINUE TO HOLD MY HEAD UP HIGH AND BE THE BEST PARENT I CAN BE.
I STAND STRONG TODAY.
THEY WILL NOT GROW UP WATCHING THEIR MOTHER BEING A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.
I WILL BE A VICTIM NO LONGER.
ROGER, KNOW THIS HERE AND FOR ALWAYS - MY KINDNESS SHOULD NEVER AGAIN MISTAKEN FOR WEAKNESS.
I WILL NOT BE THREATENED.
I WILL NOT BE CONTROLLED.
I WILL NOT BE BROKEN.
ON A MORE GENERAL AND PERSONAL NOTE.
I KNOW THIS MAY BE SEEN BY MANY PEOPLE IN VARYING CIRCUMSTANCES IN ALL WALKS OF LIFE.
VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ARE NOT JUST THOSE WHO ARE PHYSICALLY ABUSED.
BECOME EDUCATED AND PROTECTED.
like DONT FEEL ALONE.
WHETHER ITS THROUGH A FRIEND, LOVED ONE, HOTLINE, LAW ENFORCEMENT AGENT, JUDGE OR STRANGER …
SUFFERING IN SILENCE IS NO WAY TO LIVE.
I WAS THERE FOR MANY YEARS AND YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN DESERVE TO BE SAFE.
YOU ARE VALUABLE, YOU ARE WORTHY, YOU ARE LOVED.
JENNI FARLEY
